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For most bereavements, there is no statutory right to paid leave in the UK — employers are not legally required to provide paid time off when an employee loses a spouse, parent, sibling, or friend. The only statutory entitlement is Parental Bereavement Leave: two weeks' leave for parents who lose a child under 18, or who experience a stillbirth after 24 weeks of pregnancy. For all other bereavements, your rights depend on your employment contract.
Losing someone close to you while having to navigate workplace obligations can feel impossibly difficult. Understanding your legal rights clearly — and knowing what to ask your employer — can give you the space you need to grieve. This guide explains what the law actually guarantees, what most employers provide, and what to do if your employer does not treat you fairly.
Many people are surprised — and understandably frustrated — to discover that UK law provides very limited statutory bereavement leave rights. Unlike holiday pay, sick leave, and maternity leave, there is no general legal right to paid time off when a close family member dies.
The Employment Rights Act 1996 provides a right to 'reasonable time off for dependants' (see below), but this is specifically framed as emergency unpaid leave to deal with an unexpected situation, not a general bereavement entitlement. For most employees, whether they receive paid bereavement leave — and how much — depends entirely on their employment contract or the discretion of their employer.
This means that across the UK workforce, bereavement entitlements vary enormously: a public sector employee may be entitled to five days' paid compassionate leave as a contractual right, while a part-time retail worker on a zero-hours contract may have no contractual entitlement whatsoever. Campaigners, including the Dying Matters coalition, have long argued that this gap should be addressed by legislation, but as of early 2026, no general statutory right to paid bereavement leave has been introduced.
The Parental Bereavement (Leave and Pay) Act 2018, which came into force in April 2020, created the only current statutory entitlement to bereavement leave in the UK. It applies to:
Eligible employees are entitled to two weeks' leave, which can be taken as a single block, two separate weeks, or any combination within 56 weeks of the child's death. This flexibility is specifically designed to acknowledge that grief does not follow a linear pattern — a parent may manage an immediate return to work but need time off around the first anniversary.
Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay is paid at the lower of £184.03 per week (2025/26 rate) or 90% of average weekly earnings. To qualify for the pay element, you must have been continuously employed for at least 26 weeks and have earnings above the lower earnings limit. If you do not meet the earnings threshold, you are still entitled to the leave — just not the pay. Some employers top up this rate contractually; check your contract or ask HR.
Important:
You do not need to give formal notice to trigger Parental Bereavement Leave — you simply need to inform your employer that you wish to take it. You should not be required to provide a death certificate or other formal documentation in order to take the leave, though your employer may reasonably request it retrospectively.
The majority of UK employers offer some form of paid compassionate or bereavement leave as a contractual benefit, even though they are not legally required to do so. The amount varies widely, but common entitlements are:
To find out what your employer provides, check your employment contract, your staff handbook or intranet HR section, or ask your line manager or HR department directly. Many employers have a bereavement leave policy that is more generous than the legal minimum — but you will only know by asking.
If your employer's compassionate leave entitlement is insufficient for your needs, you may be able to supplement it with annual leave, unpaid leave, or — if your grief is clinically significant — sick leave supported by a GP fit note.
Section 57A of the Employment Rights Act 1996 gives all employees a statutory right to take a reasonable amount of unpaid time off to deal with unexpected or sudden emergencies involving a dependant. This includes dealing with the death of a dependant.
A 'dependant' for these purposes includes a spouse or civil partner, a child, a parent, or a person who lives in the same household as you (other than as a tenant, lodger, or boarder). It also includes anyone who reasonably relies on you for assistance in an emergency.
The right to time off for dependants is specifically intended to cover the immediate aftermath: informing an employer, making initial funeral arrangements, and dealing with the sudden disruption that a death causes. It is not intended to cover an extended period of bereavement. 'Reasonable' in this context typically means one or two days, not a week or more.
Critically, this right is to unpaid leave. Your employer cannot refuse it, and they cannot dismiss you or subject you to a detriment (such as a disciplinary action or denial of promotion) for taking it. However, they are not required to pay you for it unless your contract says otherwise.
If you believe your employer has unlawfully denied you Parental Bereavement Leave, refused your right to time off for dependants, or penalised you for taking bereavement leave, you have several options:
A note on wellbeing:
If your grief is significantly impacting your ability to work, consider speaking with your GP, who can issue a fit note (formerly a 'sick note') covering absence for a mental health reason. Bereavement-related depression, anxiety, or complicated grief are legitimate medical conditions and can support an absence from work without it being recorded as disciplinary absence. Many employers also offer Employee Assistance Programmes — free, confidential counselling support available outside of your employment record.
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