Funeral Music Choices UK
Music creates the emotional atmosphere of a funeral and helps mourners connect with memories. This guide covers the most popular funeral songs in the UK, classical pieces, modern alternatives, how to choose the right music, and when each piece plays during the service.
Quick Guide
- ✓Top 20 popular funeral songs in the UK
- ✓Classical pieces and traditional hymns
- ✓Modern and alternative song suggestions
- ✓When each piece plays during the service
- ✓How to choose music that honors their memory
Top 20 Popular Funeral Songs
Based on data from UK crematoriums and funeral directors, these are the most chosen funeral songs.
"My Way" – Frank Sinatra
A powerful anthem about living life on your own terms. Reflective and proud.
Best for: Entrance or reflection | Strong, independent personalities
"Time to Say Goodbye" – Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
Beautiful, emotional operatic song. Powerful farewell message.
Best for: Committal or exit | Emotional, dramatic farewell
"Over the Rainbow" – Eva Cassidy
Gentle, hopeful version of the classic. Comforting and uplifting.
Best for: Reflection or exit | Peaceful, hopeful tone
"Angels" – Robbie Williams
Touching ballad about protection and love. Very popular in UK.
Best for: Reflection | Younger person, modern feel
"Wind Beneath My Wings" – Bette Midler
Tribute to someone who supported you. Emotional and grateful.
Best for: Reflection | Parents, partners, mentors
"Abide With Me" – Traditional Hymn
Classic funeral hymn. Solemn, comforting, and traditional.
Best for: Any part of service | Traditional religious funerals
"The Lord Is My Shepherd" – Traditional
Psalm 23 set to music. Comforting religious piece.
Best for: Religious service | Any point in ceremony
"Unforgettable" – Nat King Cole
Classic, romantic song celebrating lasting memories.
Best for: Entrance or reflection | Romantic partners
"Hallelujah" – Jeff Buckley or Leonard Cohen
Deeply moving, spiritual without being overtly religious.
Best for: Reflection | Both religious and secular services
"You'll Never Walk Alone" – Gerry and the Pacemakers
Uplifting anthem of support and solidarity. Liverpool FC connection.
Best for: Exit | Football fans, community spirit
"What a Wonderful World" – Louis Armstrong
Celebrating life's beauty. Warm, nostalgic, optimistic.
Best for: Reflection or exit | Positive celebration of life
"Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" – Monty Python
Humorous, uplifting exit song. Perfect for those with great sense of humor.
Best for: Exit | Light-hearted, fun-loving personalities
"I Will Always Love You" – Whitney Houston
Powerful love song. Emotional tribute to lasting love.
Best for: Reflection | Partners, parents
"Tears in Heaven" – Eric Clapton
Written for his son. Deeply moving, about loss and hope.
Best for: Reflection | Loss of a child, young person
"Make You Feel My Love" – Adele
Bob Dylan song, Adele's version deeply emotional. About unwavering love.
Best for: Reflection | Modern, heartfelt tribute
"Candle in the Wind" – Elton John
Tribute to Princess Diana. About life cut short.
Best for: Reflection | Younger person, unexpected loss
"Let It Be" – The Beatles
Comforting message of peace and acceptance.
Best for: Reflection or exit | Beatles fans, peaceful tone
"Unchained Melody" – Righteous Brothers
Romantic classic. Longing and eternal love.
Best for: Reflection | Romantic partners
"The Best" – Tina Turner
Upbeat celebration. "Simply the best" tribute.
Best for: Exit | Uplifting celebration, strong personalities
"Danny Boy" – Traditional Irish
Emotional Irish farewell song. Timeless and moving.
Best for: Any point | Irish heritage, traditional feel
Classical Pieces
Classical music offers timeless elegance and emotional depth for funeral services.
"Nimrod" from Enigma Variations – Edward Elgar
Perhaps the most iconic British funeral music. Solemn, moving, powerful. Often used at Remembrance Day services.
"Ave Maria" – Schubert or Bach/Gounod
Beautiful sacred piece. Two famous versions—both deeply moving. Religious but universally appreciated.
"Adagio for Strings" – Samuel Barber
Intensely emotional American piece. Used in many films. Profound sadness and beauty.
"Canon in D" – Johann Pachelbel
Gentle, reflective baroque piece. Often used at weddings but equally beautiful for funerals.
"Air on the G String" – J.S. Bach
Serene, contemplative. One of Bach's most beloved works. Peaceful atmosphere.
"Pie Jesu" – Andrew Lloyd Webber (or Fauré)
Sacred choral piece meaning "merciful Jesus." Both versions are hauntingly beautiful.
"Clair de Lune" – Claude Debussy
Gentle, dreamy piano piece. Peaceful and reflective. Means "moonlight."
"The Lark Ascending" – Ralph Vaughan Williams
Beautiful British pastoral piece. Uplifting, hopeful, celebrating nature and freedom.
"Requiem" (movements) – Mozart or Verdi
Mass for the dead. Powerful choral works. Choose specific movements like "Lacrimosa" (Mozart) or "Dies Irae" (Verdi).
"Funeral March" – Frédéric Chopin
Solemn, traditional funeral music. Recognized worldwide. Very formal and dignified.
Modern and Alternative Songs
For those wanting something contemporary, unique, or reflecting modern tastes.
Modern Pop/Rock
- → "Fix You" – Coldplay
- → "The Scientist" – Coldplay
- → "Chasing Cars" – Snow Patrol
- → "Everybody Hurts" – R.E.M.
- → "Mad World" – Gary Jules
- → "A Thousand Years" – Christina Perri
- → "See You Again" – Wiz Khalifa ft. Charlie Puth
- → "Supermarket Flowers" – Ed Sheeran
Uplifting/Celebratory
- → "Don't Stop Me Now" – Queen
- → "Here Comes the Sun" – The Beatles
- → "Three Little Birds" – Bob Marley
- → "I've Had the Time of My Life" – Bill Medley
- → "Walking on Sunshine" – Katrina and the Waves
- → "Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)" – Green Day
- → "Live While We're Young" – One Direction
Country/Folk
- → "Go Rest High on That Mountain" – Vince Gill
- → "If Tomorrow Never Comes" – Garth Brooks
- → "The Dance" – Garth Brooks
- → "Wild Horses" – The Rolling Stones
- → "Blackbird" – The Beatles
- → "Songbird" – Eva Cassidy
Soul/R&B
- → "A Song for You" – Donny Hathaway
- → "Ain't No Sunshine" – Bill Withers
- → "Stand By Me" – Ben E. King
- → "I'll Be Missing You" – Puff Daddy ft. Faith Evans
- → "One Sweet Day" – Mariah Carey & Boyz II Men
When Music Plays During Service
Understanding when each piece of music plays helps you choose appropriately for each moment.
1. Before Service (Background Music)
Timing: As guests arrive, 15-30 minutes before service starts
Purpose: Sets the tone, creates atmosphere, comforts guests as they settle
Suggestions: Gentle, instrumental, or the deceased's favorite songs played softly. Create a 30-40 minute playlist.
2. Entrance Music (Processional)
Timing: As the coffin enters, 1-3 minutes
Purpose: Marks the formal start of the service. Most emotional moment for many.
Tone: Solemn, respectful, meaningful. Sets emotional tone for the service.
3. Reflection Music (During Service)
Timing: Mid-service, 3-5 minutes. Often after eulogy or before committal.
Purpose: Gives mourners time to reflect quietly. Emotional release point.
Tone: Most personal choice. Can be deeply emotional, uplifting, or meaningful to the deceased.
4. Committal Music (During Burial/Cremation)
Timing: As the coffin is lowered or curtains close, 1-2 minutes
Purpose: Accompanies the final farewell. Most symbolic moment.
Tone: Poignant, final. Often instrumental or very meaningful lyrics.
5. Exit Music (Recessional)
Timing: As family leaves and guests file out, 2-3 minutes
Purpose: Closes the service. Last impression and emotional tone.
Tone: Can be uplifting, hopeful, or reflective. Many choose celebratory songs here.
Typical Service Structure
A typical funeral service includes 3-4 pieces of music:
- Entrance music as coffin arrives
- Hymn or song during service (optional)
- Reflection music mid-service
- Committal music (burial/cremation)
- Exit music as guests leave
Need Help Planning the Music?
Funeral directors and celebrants can guide you through music choices and ensure the sound system works properly. Get quotes from local funeral directors to find one who understands your vision.
Get Free Quotes →How to Choose the Right Music
These questions help you select music that truly honors your loved one.
1. Did they have a favorite song?
The most personal choice. Even if unconventional, their favorite song is meaningful. "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" is now a top funeral song because people loved it.
2. What tone do you want to set?
Different songs create different atmospheres:
- → Solemn and traditional: Hymns, classical
- → Emotional and moving: "Angels," "Tears in Heaven"
- → Uplifting and celebratory: "What a Wonderful World"
- → Light-hearted: Monty Python, upbeat favorites
3. Consider their personality and values
Were they traditional or modern? Religious or secular? Fun-loving or serious? Let music reflect who they were.
4. Think about the audience
Will the song resonate with attendees? Will it comfort or confuse? Balance personal choice with what will be meaningful to mourners.
5. Check venue restrictions
Some religious venues restrict secular music. Some crematoriums have audio limitations. Confirm your choices work with the venue.
6. Live music vs recorded?
Recorded: More song options, cheaper (often free), consistent quality
Live: Personal touch, can be performed by family member, more emotional impact. Cost: £200-£600.
7. Listen before deciding
Play the song in full. Read the lyrics carefully. Some songs have unexpected meanings or verses you might not want at a funeral.
Practical Considerations
Audio Format
Most crematoriums and venues accept:
- → USB flash drive (MP3 files) - most common
- → CD (bring backup in case of issues)
- → Streaming (Spotify, YouTube) - check venue allows this
- → Phone/tablet aux connection - least reliable
Timing and Length
- →Entrance/Exit: Choose songs 2-4 minutes long
- →Reflection: Full song (3-5 minutes)
- →Committal: 1-2 minutes (may fade out)
- →Total service: 30-45 minutes typical
Copyright and Permissions
Good news: You don't need to worry about music licensing for funerals. Crematoriums and funeral venues have blanket licenses covering virtually all music.
Exception: If you're filming the service to share online, you may need permission. Check with the venue.
Test the Audio
Arrive 15 minutes early (or have funeral director test beforehand):
- → Check songs play in correct order
- → Test volume levels
- → Confirm files aren't corrupted
- → Have backup ready
Frequently Asked Questions
Can we play explicit or unusual songs?
Technically yes, but consider your audience. If the deceased loved a song with profanity, some families use edited versions or choose a different song. Others embrace it as authentic to the person. It's your choice, but be aware some guests may be uncomfortable.
How many songs should we choose?
Typically 3-5 songs: entrance, 1-2 during service (reflection, hymn), committal, and exit. You can also have background music before the service starts.
What if we can't afford live musicians?
Recorded music is perfectly acceptable and most common. High-quality recordings sound beautiful and cost nothing. Many people prefer hearing the original artist's version anyway.
Can family members perform music?
Yes, if they feel able to. It's deeply personal and meaningful. However, emotions can be overwhelming, so always have a recorded backup in case they can't go through with it.
What if family members disagree on music choices?
Prioritize what the deceased would have wanted. If unknown, try to accommodate multiple preferences: one person's choice for entrance, another's for reflection. Music can be inclusive.
Get Help Planning Your Funeral Music
Funeral directors and celebrants can help you choose appropriate music, coordinate audio equipment, and ensure everything runs smoothly. Get quotes from experienced professionals in your area.
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